for some morbid reason I actually read through most of this thread. since getting that portion of my life back isnt really an option, I figured i should do what I could to help.
for pretty much 90% of the participants here. A friendly suggestion...
http://www.preparationh.com/
a small excerpt..
"THE STRESS FACTOR
We all have a lot of stress in our lives, such as family, work and finances. Unfortunately, stress can have a negative effect on hemorrhoids. Stress can lead to digestive problems—and straining, due to constipation and diarrhea, can cause hemorrhoid flare-ups. When people are stressed, they tighten their sphincter muscle and put pressure on the rectum. This pressure can cause hemorrhoid flare-ups. What's more, stress can lead to poor food choices and, therefore, constipation. Chronic constipation can cause pressure in the anal and rectal area, which can cause hemorrhoids.
For tips on how to manage your stress, see stress relievers.
STRESS RELIEVERS: TOP 10 PICKS TO TAME STRESS
Stress getting to you? Try physical activity, yoga, listening to music or other top stress relievers to help restore peace and calm to your life."
more can be read here.
http://www.preparationh.com/live-better/emotional-toll-of-hemorrhoids
you are all welcome, and please, do not eat the big white mint.