the thing is, i my self dont trust anyone. when i meet somone i asume the worst, at every angle. Why? because of trust. i learnt a few times the hard way, but it is minor in compairason.
The same should go for any buisness simular to Runuo or sphere, because it is so small and can not really aford things such as, lets say EA.
You should only trust those who have proven them selfs valuable. Sometimes, i admit those friends might not....exactly be cream of the crop...depending on things.....
I dont have many friends, i know this. I only call a friend a friend if i can count on them for something. otherwise, i only give information when needed. such as i dont tell anyone what they dont need to know.
Trust is tricky, there are people who , know that you have acess to this or that, or you know people, so theyll be nice to you and work on you til lthey get thier foot in the door. this happends all to often.
RoninGT, known here on Runuo forums, and i are friends, i still call him that even after alot has happend. With one of his admins and all that stuff. but that is in the past, and i know it wasnt his fault for what had happend with one of his admins long long long long ago...but there are people, like i said, will abuse thier friendship to ruin another. for what ever reason. maybe a told u so, so listen to me, or a you can count on me kinda way, but still be wrong.
Ryan. I dont know you at all, just like any user here whould know you. From what i can tell you your self honor friendship to the highest level. that is good. friends are important. and i hope that you still keep those friends that got shafted.
Personaly, i dont go and make friends, i let them come to me, in a manner of speaking. Running anything with another person needs a greate deal of trust, working alone will nearly kill you....trust me. but if your in a position where you have to trust somone you dont know or trust verry lil, i recomend agenst it.
but this comming from a quiet person like my self, and i try not to dubble talk, but i do know for a fact that what he did is wrong, and thier is a special place for people like that.
And using a windows platform to host a website server, or anything like that is just...retarded, even for backdoor lan acess. eather get to know linux, or find a day job.