I am a smoker, my husband is not. Of my own accord, I used to step outside if I wanted to smoke because I don't feel I should kill him with my choice to smoke. And if I'm someplace, and I can see the smoke is bothering someone else's right to breathe, I either put it out, or move. I feel the choice to do something bad for me is my choice, and non-smokers should not have to breathe my filthy second-hand smoke. At the same time, I feel that if I'm outside smoking, non-smokers shouldn't go out of their way to be near me. There's tons more space than right by me smoking. It's give and take, I'll give on the inside thing, but at least give me some space to smoke outside or some such thing. Perfumes bother my breathing, am I supposed to tell people not to wear perfume if they are gonna be walking in the street where I might be? Or should I just walk further away from them?